Family Wall Planner Hacks: 4 Ways to Share the Load & Stress Less
Do you have a troop of little humans to coordinate at home? Learn how our family wall planner can help you become an organisational wizard, while keeping your sanity intact!
Why is that when times get tough, the mental load that comes from having a family always lands on me? I realised just how much I carry, when I wrote out a one page list of everything I do - it included everything from shopping for groceries, to making sure theres a gift when we go to kids parties, and returning overdue library books.
In our case, my husband and I have tried to share the load by syncing online calendars, scribbling lists on a whiteboard, and even talking with our marriage therapist!
How can you change everyday life so that the load is shared and maintained by all? Once the kids hit school, they can write a word or two... and its time to even things out a little.
A family Wall Planner can be a game changer - lifting it from two players to more! In our family, theres four of us: myself Katerina, my husband Rully, our 8-year-old daughter Leda, and our 6-year-old daughter Femi. Each of us have our own column on the planner for our own appointments and events, with a fifth column for family events - the Grindo column: Im Greek and my husband is Indonesian (or as we say, Indo!) so they call us The Grindos!
1. Make It Part of Your Family HQ
Decide on a central place to hang your planner. Ours hangs on a wall in the kitchen because this is the heart of our home. We eat in the kitchen, talk about our day, laugh, argue and entertain friends here.
Out of sight, out of mind. We used to have the wall planner hanging in the study/office which excluded the kids. But if the whole family can actually see their own week at a glance, then it's a shared responsibility.
2. Train up Your Younger Players
Create a column for each kid. At the top of the column, you can display their photo, name, and preprint their birthday with their chosen colour as the background.
Let them decide what pens or markers theyll be using - they can go to town with colour!
Make it fun with cute stickers and little drawings - everyone loves stickers!
Help them remember their own activities by allowing them to write in their column. This will also help them take responsibility for their chores like cleaning their room or packing away their clothes. They can write due dates for school projects or exciting milestones like I learnt to ride a bike.
Get them to write down birthdays for their friends and family.
You can also write down your budget to allow each person to track their spending throughout the week.
Give them a YES day once a month where they can choose a family activity (from a list youve created, of course!)
3. Meal Plan a Week Ahead:
Because were all tired of thinking of what to cook every night for dinner!
Give your brain a break! Save time thinking about it, minimise food waste and keep within your budget. It will alleviate the extra stress in your day-to-day life!
Either create a full column for meals or pick the Meal Planner module at the bottom of the page. We use the date column to write in our meals.
Be democratic. Ask each family member what they would like - it shows what meals they love the best.
Get creative by looking at recipe books or YouTube videos but keep the plan simple. For example, Sundays are for roasts - whether it's chicken or beef. In our house, we like to eat fish or seafood on Fridays and our favourite local Thai restaurant has discounted specials every Tuesday so thats our takeaway night. As a rule, we like to eat vegetarian food 3-4 nights of the week.
4. Have a Weekly Family Huddle
Decide on a time and place when the whole family sits down to workout their schedules and write down the important events or deadlines for the upcoming week. The Grindos love doing this on a Sunday afternoon, complete with a 5-minute family dance off or musical jam afterwards.
Keep it short - 30 minutes maximum. This shows the whole family how to get into the rhythm of being concise and efficient.
Keep it light and colourful with snacks and markers! The kids love adding drawings, stickers and decorations.
Touch base everyday to keep on top of any changes. We usually like to go round the table at dinner and say one thing we are grateful for that happened on that day and this gives us a chance to tell our news or changes to the next few days.
Our family calendar helps us plan our week, and lightens the load we carry as parents. It helps us to avoid stressful moments, and frees up more time for laughter and family adventures - and who doesnt like that!
Try customising a Wall Planner to fit your family life below!
/Katerina at Personal Planner
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